Golang Reduced The Per Cgo Call Mutex

Reduced the per-cgo-call mutex acquisition on the Golang HTTP filter by making the has_destroyed_ flag a std::atomic<bool>. CAPI methods whose only Envoy-side work is Filter-owned or runs on the worker thread (setHeader, removeHeader, setTrailer, removeTrailer, addData, injectData, continueStatus, sendLocalReply, setBufferHelper, copyBuffer, drainBuffer, setUpstreamOverrideHost, clearRouteCache, setDynamicMetadata, setStringFilterState) no longer take the mutex, eliminating an uncontended atomic compare-and-swap pair on every such call. The mutex is retained on the CAPI methods that inline-dereference Envoy-stream-owned objects from off-thread (getHeader, copyHeaders, copyTrailers, getIntegerValue, setDrainConnectionUponCompletion) where it serialises against onDestroy to prevent the worker thread from freeing the underlying header map or StreamInfo mid-access, and on the five methods that write to the per-request strValue scratch buffer (getStringValue, getDynamicMetadata, getStringFilterState, getStringProperty, getSecret).