// ...
unit Unit1;
interface
uses
  Windows, Messages, SysUtils, Classes, Graphics, Controls, Forms, Dialogs, dxBar, StdCtrls;
// form declaration
type
  TMainForm = class(TForm)
    dxBarManager: TdxBarManager;
    CreateColorBarButton: TButton;
    procedure CreateColorBarButtonClick(Sender: TObject);
    procedure dxBarManagerBarDockingStyleChange(Sender: TdxBarManager; ABar: TdxBar);
  private
    { Private declarations }
    barColor: TdxBar;
    procedure btnColorClick(Sender: TObject);
  public
    { Public declarations }
  end;
var
  MainForm: TMainForm;
implementation
{$R *.DFM}
// The OnClick event handler of a new item
procedure TMainForm.btnColorClick(Sender: TObject);
begin
  with TdxBarButton(Sender).ClickItemLink do
    if Data = -1 then
      with TColorDialog.Create(nil) do
      begin
        Color := Self.Color;
        if Execute then
          Self.Color := Color;
        Free;
      end
    else
      Color := Data;
end;
procedure TMainForm.CreateColorBarButtonClick(Sender: TObject);
const
  Captions: array[1..16] of string = ('Black', 'Maroon', 'Green', 'Olive', 'Navy', 'Purple', 'Teal', 'Gray', 'Silver', 'Red', 'Lime', 'Yellow', 'Blue', 'Fuchsia', 'Aqua', 'White');
  Colors: array[1..16] of TColor = (clBlack, clMaroon, clGreen, clOlive, clNavy, clPurple, clTeal, clGray, clSilver, clRed, clLime, clYellow, clBlue, clFuchsia, clAqua, clWhite);
var
  btnColor: TdxBarButton;
  B: TBitmap;
  I: Integer;
begin
  with dxBarManager do
  begin
    // Creates a new item
    btnColor := TdxBarButton.Create(Self);
    with btnColor do
    begin
      PaintStyle := psCaptionGlyph;
      OnClick := btnColorClick;
    end;
    // Creates a new toolbar for new item controls
    barColor := Bars.Add;
    with barColor do
    begin
      AllowCustomizing := False;
      Caption := 'Color';
    end;
    // Creates a bitmap drawn on an item control's surface
    B := TBitmap.Create;
    with B do
    begin
      Width := 18;
      Height := 16;
      with Canvas do
      begin
        // For transparent color
        Brush.Color := clBtnFace;
        FillRect(Rect(0, 0, Width, Height));
        // Draws frame
        Brush.Color := clBtnShadow;
        FrameRect(Rect(1, 0, Width - 1, Height));
      end;
    end;
    // Creates item controls on a new toolbar
    for I := 1 to 16 do
      with barColor.ItemLinks.Add do
      begin
        Data := Colors[I];
        Item := btnColor;
        UserCaption := Captions[I];
        with B, Canvas do
        begin
          Brush.Color := Colors[I];
          FillRect(Rect(2, 1, Width - 2, Height - 1));
        end;
        UserGlyph := B;
      end;
    // Creates the 16th item control
    // that calls the color selection dialog
    with barColor.ItemLinks.Add do
    begin
      BeginGroup := True;
      Data := -1;
      Item := btnColor;
      UserCaption := 'Custom...';
      UserPaintStyle := psCaption;
    end;
    B.Free;
    // Specifies position and displays a new toolbar on screen
    barColor.FloatLeft := Left - 80;
    barColor.FloatTop := Top;
    barColor.Visible := True;
  end;
end;
// The OnDockingStyleChange event handler of a bar manager
procedure TMainForm.dxBarManagerBarDockingStyleChange(Sender: TdxBarManager; ABar: TdxBar);
begin
  if ABar = barColor then
    with ABar do
    begin
      LockUpdate := True;
      with TdxBarButton(ItemLinks[0].Item) do
        if DockingStyle = dsNone then
          PaintStyle := psCaptionGlyph
        else
          PaintStyle := psStandard;
      LockUpdate := False;
    end;
end;
end.

// ...
Unit1.h
#ifndef Unit1H
#define Unit1H
#include <Classes.hpp>
#include <Controls.hpp>
#include <StdCtrls.hpp>
#include <Forms.hpp>
#include "dxBar.hpp"
#include "dxBarExtItems.hpp"
class TMainForm : public TForm
{
__published: // IDE-managed Components
    TdxBarManager *dxBarManager;
    TButton * CreateColorBarButton;
    void __fastcall CreateColorBarButtonClick(TObject *Sender);
    void __fastcall dxBarManagerBarDockingStyleChange(TdxBarManager *Sender, TdxBar *ABar);
private: // User declarations
    TdxBar * barColor;
    void __fastcall btnColorClick(TObject * Sender);
public: // User declarations
    __fastcall TMainForm(TComponent* Owner);
};
extern PACKAGE TMainForm MainForm;
#endif
// C++ Builder
// ...
Unit1.cpp
#include <vcl.h>
#pragma hdrstop
#include "Unit1.h"
//-------------------------------------------------------------
#pragma package(smart_init)
#pragma link "dxBar"
#pragma link "dxBarExtItems"
#pragma resource "*.dfm"
TForm1 *Form1;
//-------------------------------------------------------------
__fastcall TMainForm::TMainForm(TComponent* Owner) : TForm(Owner)
{
}
const AnsiString Captions[] = {"Black", "Maroon", "Green", "Olive", "Navy", "Purple", "Teal", "Gray", "Silver", "Red", "Lime", "Yellow", "Blue", "Fuchsia", "Aqua", "White"};
const TColor Colors[] = {clBlack, clMaroon, clGreen, clOlive, clNavy, clPurple, clTeal, clGray, clSilver, clRed, clLime, clYellow, clBlue, clFuchsia, clAqua, clWhite};
void __fastcall TMainForm::CreateColorBarButtonClick(TObject *Sender)
{
  TdxBarButton * btnColor;
  Graphics::TBitmap * B;
  int I;
  TdxBarItemLink * NewItemLink;
  // Creates a new item
  btnColor = new TdxBarButton(this);
  btnColor->PaintStyle = psCaptionGlyph;
  btnColor->OnClick = btnColorClick;
  // Creates a new toolbar for new item controls
  barColor = dxBarManager->Bars->Add();
  barColor->AllowCustomizing = false;
  barColor->Caption = "Color";
  // Creates a bitmap drawn on an item control surface
  B = new Graphics::TBitmap;
  B->Width = 18;
  B->Height = 16;
  // For transparent color
  B->Canvas->Brush->Color = clBtnFace;
  B->Canvas->FillRect(Rect(0, 0, B->Width, B->Height));
  // Draws a frame
  B->Canvas->Brush->Color = clBtnShadow;
  B->Canvas->FrameRect(Rect(1, 0, B->Width - 1, B->Height));
  // Creates item controls on a new toolbar
  for(I=0;I<16;I++)
  {
    NewItemLink = barColor->ItemLinks->Add();
    NewItemLink->Data = Colors[I];
    NewItemLink->Item = btnColor;
    NewItemLink->UserCaption = Captions[I];
    B->Canvas->Brush->Color = Colors[I];
    B->Canvas->FillRect(Rect(2, 1, B->Width - 2, B->Height - 1));
    NewItemLink->UserGlyph = B;
  }
  // Creats the 16th item control
  // that calls the color selection dialog
  NewItemLink = barColor->ItemLinks->Add();
  NewItemLink->BeginGroup = true;
  NewItemLink->Data = -1;
  NewItemLink->Item = btnColor;
  NewItemLink->UserCaption = "Custom...";
  NewItemLink->UserPaintStyle = psCaption;
  delete B;
  // Specifies the position and displays a new toolbar on screen
  barColor->FloatLeft = Left - 80;
  barColor->FloatTop = Top;
  barColor->Visible = true;
}
void __fastcall TMainForm::btnColorClick(TObject * Sender)
{
  TColorDialog * ColorDialog;
  if( ((TdxBarButton *)Sender)->ClickItemLink->Data == -1)
  {
    ColorDialog = new TColorDialog(NULL);
    ColorDialog->Color = this->Color;
    if (ColorDialog->Execute())
          this->Color = Color;
    delete ColorDialog;
   }
   else
     Color = (TColor)(((TdxBarButton *)Sender)->ClickItemLink->Data);
}
void __fastcall TMainForm::dxBarManagerBarDockingStyleChange(TdxBarManager *Sender, TdxBar *ABar)
{
  TdxBarButton * Button;
  if (ABar == barColor)
  ABar->LockUpdate = true;
  Button = (TdxBarButton *)(ABar->ItemLinks->Items[0]->Item);
  if (ABar->DockingStyle == dsNone)
    Button->PaintStyle = psCaptionGlyph;
  else
    Button->PaintStyle = psStandard;
  ABar->LockUpdate = false;
}